Why Not Me?

As I look back over the situation going on in my life dealing with my husband I have to ask the question, why not me? Yeah you read right, 'why not me?' instead of 'why me?'. I accept that bad things happen to people, it's what makes us stronger as individuals, so I'll never ask that question.
My question stems from why didn't my husband talk to me and instead confided in our daughter. Why did he not ask me if I had an affair on him, if I had a boyfriend? Why did he trust her and not me? Why did he spend more time with her and not me? Why did he not try to win me back over if he thought I was cheating on him? Why did he talk more with a 13 year old child and not me?